And now for something completely different…

I appreciate that I began this blog as a photography blog, but somehow, life is getting in the way. For more than a week, it’s been a nasty cold, but the thing that really is messing me up these days is something that people don’t really talk about too much, though I am baffled as to why.

It’s menopause. Yup, I said it. It’s out there.

Holy mackeral – this puppy has thrown me for a loop.

I think that people don’t talk about it because it signifies something else people don’t want to talk about – getting older. Not me. I’m like a teenager who can’t wait to be old enough to drive – I want to be old enough to go back to sleeping through the night without waking up in a HOT sweat. Or just to sleep. There are nights that I am awake for HOURS. I’m finally in a place where I have LESS to worry about – the kids are grown, healthy, happy – and I just can’t sleep. Curse you hormones.

I have to dress differently – layers cause I’m hot. Then I’m cold. Then I’m boiling hot. The worst is when I was driving last night and I had to roll down the windows and literally stick my head out like I was an exhuberant puppy – I couldn’t throw off my coat while still staying on the road. The freezing rain was a relief, frankly.

And then, there’s the loss of what I feel is one of life’s simplest pleasure – taking a nice, long, hot bath. Not happening. Well, it happens but only for about 10 minutes (if I’m really, really lucky) and then – poof – the average hot flash sends your body temperature about 9 degrees warmer which is not a barrel of laughs when you are in a tub that is a zillion degrees already.

Oh yes and then there’s the mood swings. (Although in my case, they’d be hard to notice as that’s not something new.)Moving on…

Red wine is now out which is no big loss as I prefer white anyway. Yet the one night Ichoose red, while eating with people from work, I found out the menopausal reaction to red wine:  I was suddenly beet red and hotter than a desert.

Upside, well, I don’t know if it’s actually menopause or something else, but I’m not having any cravings. This is not like me at all. I have had a long love affair with chocolate but most days I’m not hungry for anything in particular.

The only thing I crave is sleep. Lots and lots of sleep.

5 thoughts on “And now for something completely different…

  1. Been there, done that and now out the other side. Hang on in there Paula, it doesn’t last for ever.
    Had my only child at 49, and hormones got in a right mess. Now though, at 57, feeling great again.
    Just need to carry on doing what you’re doing and try to be positive. It’s odd how we feel we’re the only ones going through this at the time.
    Take care.


    • Wow – to throw the maternal hormones in there would have done me in. I bow down to you! I actually am finding it all pretty humourous – I work with some great (younger) women who are keeping me laughing all the time so it’s all good. I do find it weird about the silence out there in the universe about menopause. I love quotes (as my blog shows!) but couldn’t find any worthwhile ones about menopause to use for this post. Guess I’ll have to start making some up.

      Thanks for sharing.


  2. I won’t pretend I know what you are going through, but have to say, I can’t wait. I suspect I have many years to go, my mother and grandmother were older than most when they went through it. I remember a quote by Jane Fonda, she said something like “I can’t wait for my first hot flash.”


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