Call it what you may

Wow! Two years ago today I wrote this post…..and now, two years later, I’ve found that “new path” – because in just under 5 months, I will (finally) go back to university. Definitely the “right direction”.

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“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind, don’t matter and those that matter, don’t mind.”   – Dr. Seuss.

I cannot figure out what to call this age and stage that I find myself in, but because of my work, I am not a fan of labels anyway.

For more than 22 years, I have first and foremost defined myself as a mom, or more aptly Kyle and Laura’s mom. I love that role and it has fulfilled me and consumed me in the best possible way. But now that my children have figuratively (and literally) “flown the coop”, a re-definition is due. Of course, I’m still a “mom”, but the full-time status has been relegated to the past. 

It is the process of moving out of their lives as they move into their own that is proving to be a challenge.  

They are truly capable, truly able to do everything…

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Ant Psychology – repost

From January, 2012….

I think everything must go back to the fact that I had a very anxious childhood. My mother *never* had time for me. You know, when you’re – when you’re the middle child in a family of five million, you don’t get any attention. I mean, how is that possible?” – Antz, the movie

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The year ahead….

I am so excited about 2014 – it is the year that a dream will be fulfilled. The dream – one that I did not realize was so important to me – is about returning to university to finish the degree I began more than 30 years ago.

I am also excited because my hubby and I are going on a cycling trip to France. This is truly another dream – to travel and see the world from the seat of a bicycle. And to visit castle and see history first hand.

I want these events to hurry up and get here – and yet, my daughter recently reminded me to enjoy all the moments between now and then – and not just because I will have no free time for the next several years, but also because THIS moment is an amazing moment.