A couple of years ago, I was lucky enough to go hang out with my daughter in Vancouver for a long weekend. As has always been her nature, the weekend was jam-packed with activities and friends and school….but we did take a moment to watch the sunset.
I really love the weekends. I love wearing my daughter’s old sweats. Having a chance to read a book. Hang out with my hubby. “Chat” with my son via some electronic method or another.
Not be at work. Think about the summer……
Yes, that’s a line from a Justin Bieber song. I hear that song every day, Monday to Friday. One of the students I support LOVES it. The student often bursts into song, singing loudly. At moments that some consider inappropriate. Like circle time, when the teacher is taking attendance or reading a book. Or in the washroom. Full blast. It was, actually, the first thing I ever heard the student say. Other times, when the student needs calming, I call it up on my phone and play it. Justin Bieber is one of my least favourite role models, but he is part of one of my most successful strategies: redirecting.
When I began working with this particular student, last September, the student was never in the classroom for more than 1-2 minutes at a time. There were rarely interactions in any way, verbal or otherwise, with other students or staff.
Yesterday, this little bunny sat on the carpet and played alongside other students. The day before, the student commented appropriately (meaning within the context and addressing another student) during a spontaneous conversation. I did not support or prompt the student in either of these interactions.
I firmly believe that it takes a village to raise a child. With few exceptions, the other students in our class are very accepting of differences. Our staff are part of the support and teaching team, including our custodian who each day makes a point to interact with the student and often will come along at just the right moment to offer encouragement in daily activities. They have a greeting routine that would melt your heart.
And, to quote a more age appropriate song, THAT’S WHAT IT’S ALL ABOUT.
I hope that, like this student, spring will blossom soon!
Don’t knock the weather; nine-tenths of the people couldn’t start a conversation if it didn’t change once in a while. – Kin Hubbard
I won’t knock the weather, but I will find something else to look at than the snow outside my window!
Tomorrow is Epilepsy Awareness Day and the colour to wear is PURPLE. I will be wearing purple to raise awareness and to honour my daughter’s friend, Aimee, who passed away five years ago. I never met Aimee, but I know that she was a very wonderful, caring person who had a smile that could light up a room.
Aimee
So let the sun shine in
face it with a grin.
Smilers never lose
and frowners never win.
So let the sun shine in
face it with a grin
Open up your heart and let the sun shine in.
Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder. – Rumi
I’m having to employ a great deal of patience these days….sometimes just thinking about how it is that this flower got to have such vibrant colours reminds me that things take time….
“I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living.” – Dr. Seuss
Today was a tough one, but there is such beauty in the world of nature that by sharing some of that beauty, the day feels less ugly.
writing in the (mom)ent 